PAY ATTENTION

You are beautifully dating in a great relationship                                                                           
You are in a relationship your friends admire so much
You plan a romantic way of proposing to her to marry you
You meet a female friend who accepts to help you
Meanwhile, your girlfriend and your best friend are unaware of this

Your behavior towards your girlfriend changes
She notices and asks you but you say everything is alright
You come home late with fabricated lies to give her as she asks you
She cries but you are too busy to notice
She follows you and notices your being in the company of a female
To you, she is helping you but to her, it’s a question to be answered

To her, you are cheating with that lady
She confronts you and you respond with a tired and sick face of her insecurities
She confronts your best friend who is green about your plans
He confirms you had slept at his place which was a lie you told her when you didn’t sleep at home
He asks her out and she hesitantly accepts because she loves you
Your friend’s advances go on and she gives in after all you are also cheating on her
She changes her behavior but you are too busy to notice

You go to her place to make your surprise engagement party
She is out with your best friend doing all you refused to do
She enters her house cuddling with your best friend, boom; surprise
She is ashamed and confused
You begin telling her all sorts of things you have been doing without her notice
She confronts you but you are too egoistic to notice
You think she betrayed you, but man you betrayed her most.

Learn how to care and not to do things for your loved ones. It’s not what you do, that matters. What you make her feel matters a thousand times more than that. Do this in time if you care about your woman. Don’t let her cry when you can dry those tears. The same goes for women, don’t be too vulnerable that your man begins to be a counselor instead of a partner. There should be emotional, spiritual, financial, and physical support in a relationship. You may be busy planning something good for him but all he needs is your ear to talk to. My dear stop that that you are doing and listen to him. It does more good than what you are planning.  




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